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Please pray for me….My husband & I are having problems
Posted: 22 May 2008 09:48 PM   [ Ignore ]
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I need your prayers.  My husband and I have gotten to where we argue all the time.  He’s never at home during the week.  He claims he always working.  He is self employed in the car business.  He has another guy that pretty much forks out the money and he does all the work.  Well he works all the time.  Tuesday night, he came home at 4:30 AM, Wed. morning.  And he went to work at likr 9:30 Am on Tuesday.  Too me this is ridiculous for him to work those hours when he isn’t made to work those hours.  But he claims he has to get this done and that done.  He’s not home right now and it’s 10:45 and he went to work at 9:30 this morning.  It’s like work is all that matters to him.  It does no good for me to say anything to him b/c then he says that all I ever do is fuss at him.  But yet I feel the same way about him.  I’ll admit to him when I’m wrong but he will never admit that he’s wrong.  We only have one car and I have to sit at home with no way of going.  I am 4 months pregnant and should not be upset like this but I stay upset over the way he does.  But in his eyes he does nothing wrong.  It’s always me that’s in the wrong.  I tell him that not many women would put up with him coming home at 4 AM and he says not many men would put up with a woman fussing at them all the time.  I don’t know what to do anymore.  It’s like nothing I say matters.  My Daddy thinks he’s cheating on me.  I really don’t believe that but there is a problem of some kind and I don’t know how to fix it.  I want so badly to kick him out to prove my point that I am sick of it but I just can’t do it.  I love him so much and I can’t bring myself to do it.  I just don’t know what to do anymore.  It just seems like he has become so stubborn and he does whatever he wants to.  I just need you guys to pray for me.  I am so down right now that I don’t know what to do.  I can do nothing but cry while I’m trying to type.  I just want to be happy.  We’re expecting our first baby and this is suppose to be a happy time for us but I stay upset b/c he’s always doing this and I can’t get through to him.  There used to be a time when I could.  Now I’m afraid it’s gonna take me kicking him out, which I can’t bring myself to do yet or something bad happening to get his attention.  I am so scared!  Please, Please pray for me and my family!  I want to be happy!  Also, pray for my Mama, she’s got to have a heart cath done tomorrow.  Pray that everything will turn out ok b/c God knows I couldn’t take something happening to her.  Thanks in advance for all your prayers.

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Posted: 22 May 2008 10:04 PM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 1 ]
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I’ll be praying.

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Posted: 22 May 2008 10:11 PM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 2 ]
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I have prayed and will be praying for you and your family, Miranda.

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Posted: 28 May 2008 10:08 AM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 3 ]
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Thanks to everyone that has been praying for me and my husband.  Please continue to pray.  It seems things are getting worse and worse.  I just don’t know what to do anymore.  Last night he claimed to be working late and I found out he lied to me and was somewhere else.  He swears he’s not cheating but he’s obviously doing things he shouldn’t or he wouldn’t lie to me.  He will never admit that he is in the wrong.  Somehow he always manages to turn it around on me.  He says I fuss at him all the time, but I don’t know what else to do.  I don’t have the nerve to tell him to leave.  I guess I am afraid he will.  And I know if that’s what he’s gonna do, I don’t need him.  But that is so hard to get to the point to where I can say I don’t care anymore just leave.  I am 4 months pregnant and this should be the happiest time of our life but I can’t be happy for dealing with this all the time.  He says his feelings for me haven’t changed but I can see a change in him.  And I don’t understand how you can love someone and lie to them and it not bother you.  Especially your wife that’s 4 months pregnant.  Knowing that if I get upset it affects the baby as well.  But if I bring that up, he says I am throwing the baby up in his face.  I’m not trying to do that but he has so much growing up to do before the baby gets here.  He is only 21 and I am 25.  I just don’t know what to do anymore.  Please please pray for us.  I just want to cry all the time and that’s no way to live but I don’t want to live without him either.  But it’s like nothing I say gets through to him.  I just really need your prayers.  Thanks in advance.

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Posted: 28 May 2008 02:16 PM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 4 ]
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Hi Miranda!
I am certainly in prayer for you and your family. I wanted to share some scripture references that hopefully will bring some comfort :
Psalm 23
Phill. 4:6-7
Mat. 6:30-33
Heb. 11:1
Rom. 8:28, 8:38-39.
I know that there are many, many more and while you are reading I pray that HIS WORD will speak to you with other verses as well. Remember that GOD loves you and please be in continual prayer to HIM!

MD

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