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01
Feb
2008
When Your Dream Turns Into A Nightmare


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Dr. Jonas Salk once said;

“I have had dreams, and I have had nightmares, I overcame the nightmares because of my dreams.”

I know your dream: You dream of traveling around the country in a shiny bus, being on stage at NQC, having lots of adoring fans that love you and your music, having a successful ministry, and making enough money to keep doing what you dream of doing.

I know your nightmare: Instead of a shiny bus, you are traveling around in a beat up old motor home, or maybe a van or a pickup with a trailer. You are nowhere near the main stage at NQC, and you hear about all the fans that love SGM, but none of them ever seem to attend your concerts. You want to see souls saved and have a successful ministry but you just can’t get in front of enough people. The few places you do get booked give you a $30.00 love offering and act like you should kiss their feet for getting that. The $30.00 didn’t even pay for the gas you put in the beat up motor home to get there in the first place.

ENDING THE NIGHTMARE:
Now, the bad news is NOT that you are caught in a nightmare, no, not at all. We’ve all been where you are, traveling around in a van, no dates, no money. No, the really bad news is that you are caught in a nightmare and can’t find the way out.

We’ve all had those really bad nightmares where a monster is chasing us, or we are heading over the falls, or we are tied up and just inches from the giant saw, or we are in an airplane heading straight for the ground. BUT – what ALWAYS happens right before the moment of truth, right in that split second as the monster is reaching for you, or you feel yourself going over the edge, or the plane is inches from smashing on the ground? What happens in that instant when all hope is gone and your heart is about to explode out of your chest? What happens?

YOU – WAKE – UP!!!!! Waking up from a nightmare is the system that God has created to keep it from continuing. You sit up! Your heart is pounding! You are sweating! You are scared! But…you are awake...and alive! WHEEEEEW!

The only way out of your career nightmare is for you to WAKE UP! Let’s review the way you wake up from a nightmare:

1. OPEN YOUR EYES. The first step in waking from a nightmare is the most basic one and the most important one: you open your eyes. In the same way, to end your career nightmare, you must stop closing your eyes to what’s going on and be willing to open your eyes to the truth of the situation. The only way a nightmare can CONTINUE is if the person having it never opens his/her eyes – and the way it instantly ends is when eyes are open.

2. TAKE A LOOK AROUND. After a horrifying nightmare, and after you open your eyes, you take a look around the room to see where you really are. You’re still kind of shaking inside, but slowly your mind focuses on reality. You see your bed, your dresser, your room and you know you are safe and at home – everything is where it should be in the real world and you realize your nightmare is over.

Every second that you focus on reality brings you further and further way from the nightmare. Experts tell us that nightmares come from thoughts that never reach our conscience minds. We didn’t allow ourselves to think them while we were awake – either out of fear or busyness – so they came to the surface when we fell asleep.

Career nightmares come the same way, from thoughts that you didn’t take the time to think about while you were still awake. Without thinking about it you followed the pied piper straight into the river. Without thinking you made a CD, sent a song to radio, and took out an ad.

You fell asleep concerning your career; you just let others lead you around. The nightmare started when thoughts you never allowed yourself to think came to the surface because you’d fallen asleep on your own career and let others tell you how to run it. The nightmare includes thoughts like: “Why isn’t our CD selling? Why isn’t radio playing the song we paid so much money to promote? Why aren’t we getting more bookings?
Open your eyes, look around and admit. IT”S NOT WORKING!

Remember, every second you focus on reality concerning your career nightmare will bring you one second closer to ending it. Open your eyes and admit that you are in your present state because of the things you have done on your own and the things you have been told to do. Actions have consequences and your actions have brought you to where you are. If you are not succeeding it is because you have not done the things that will bring success.

3. CHANGE YOUR POSITION. When you wake up from a nightmare you sit up in bed, or you turn over, but the act of waking up involves a change in position.

After you open your eyes and take a look around to focus on reality, you must change the position you were in while you were having the nightmare. If your CD isn’t selling ask yourself why? Is it the songs you chose? The producer you chose? The way your group performed the songs? If radio promotion isn’t working, stop paying for it. If you aren’t getting dates ask yourself, “WHY?’…And be willing to hear the answer.

When you become a product that consumers want to hear. They will come by the droves to your concerts.

YOU CANNOT HIDE A BONFIRE UNDER A BUSHEL! The greatest marketing tool in the world is WORD OF MOUTH. It is more powerful than any ad or promotion.

A. Get your business house in order.
B. Get your music right.
C. Keep your money and don’t give it away to snake oil salesmen.

If you don’t know how to do these things I will teach you. This is what I do. I’m only an email away.

4. DREAM AGAIN. As scary as the nightmare is, the real tragedy about a nightmare is that it keeps you from dreaming GOOD dreams. Once the nightmare ends, you whisper a prayer of thanks to the Lord for helping you to wake up from it, for the eyes to look around and see where you really are, and then you lay back down in peace, and do something that gives you hope and happiness…you DREAM.

Dream the dream you’ve always had about your career in Gospel Music…and with God’s help your dream can still come true.

I close with this quote by Henry Van Dyke:
“Use what talents you possess; the woods would be very silent if no birds sang there except those that sang best.”

As always, I welcome your comments.

God Bless You,

Nick Bruno
http://www.nickbruno.com

Reader Comments

CliffCerce's avatar Wow!

Great stuff, Nick!

Cliff Cerce
The Cerces, PO Box 8525, Springfield, MO 65801
417-863-8440
http://www.thecerces.com



Commented by CliffCerce On 02/01/2008
Nick, I agree with what you have said , except for one thing. Sometimes it makes alot more sense to travel in a van than a shiny new bus. To me the bus IS the nightmare. I watch groups go out of business every year and never reach their dream because they bought a shiny new bus......or a beat up old one.

Let's be real honest about the "dream" of gospel music. There are not 5 groups in SG that would pay me enough to leave my full time ministry with my wife and travel on the "big time" circuit. Why? because the BIG TIME groups are still only selling 10,000 cd's and singing to 500 people on average. They can't pay their singers enogh beause the owner of the group wants the big shiny bus.

He wants to pay his "record company" (that did not front the cost of recording!) $4 for a cd that costs 90 cents. He wants to buy 3 microphones and a guitar wireless pack for $10,500(OK michael.....YOU can afford it!ha!)And that manager wants to spend a fortune on swinging news ads.

I will choose to build my ministry one fan at a time. Use my nice motorhome only when I am on long tours and it pays for itself. I will use my van anytime I can, making the church pay for the motel. (here is a tip.... if they wont pay for the motel.....you don't need to go!)

I will keep my money and quit paying the "record company" for my recordings. REAL record companies pay for your recordings up front....not like most of these fake SG compainies that Nick warns against.

Sorry for the long rant....just wanted to point out that sometimes it makes more sense to keep the van ....thus keeping your money.

A great living CAN be made in the industry. You just can't give your money away. You can't frive 500 miles for $300. You can't get sucked into the spending trap of SG.

Don't let the big time groups fool you. Other than a few ....most are barely making it. But, they have that shiny new bus!

I am so impressed.


Commented by mark forester On 02/03/2008
keyboardguy's avatar I wholeheartedly agree. I bought Nick's book and read it in one sitting. Our ministry has started following his suggestions, and they WORK. Nick, thanks for all you have done and are doing.

God loves all kinds of music if it glorifies Jesus Christ, but He taps His feet to Southern Gospel!

Reverend Tim Hill, Church of God Cleveland Assistant General Overseer

Gospel Sounds Ministries

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Commented by keyboardguy On 02/04/2008
Thank you Nick for all of your valuable and thought provoking advice. May God continue to bless you with these words of wisdom and just plain common sense.


Commented by On 02/09/2008
Nick you speak a good message and your right about the snake oil sales people in the recording business. I have watched a neighborhood gospel group pay a huge amount of money for a full project CD, recording time, mixing, producer, all added up to one big bill for them. They brought me the project and asked to play it on the air. We sat down together and listened to it. I cried for them because it was the worst mix and recorded project I have ever heard not one song could I present on the air, and they agreed and were so embarassed that they brought it to me and tried to explain that is not what they heard as a proof at the studio.
Nick we all prayed there at the station and asked for God's intervention in the situation between them and the recording studio. The group has asked for a redo on the CD's or a refund of the money. So far the studio said they would get back to them.
Like most groups they can not afford to loose that kind of money, it was all that they had.
On another note, I have been blessed by God to be on the air for four hours a day, seven to eleven pm, "Brother Gene's Gospel Radio Program" and God has always guided me in what to play, old and new, it all depends on the needs of the listeners because even if they don't call in a request God knows what song will touch their heart and let them know that He is there. And I don't charge to play someones music and introduce them to my family of listeners. But this is what I do require: 1. It must be gospel and deal with the word of God. 2. Southern,Bluegrass, or Country Gospel.
3.You must be able to hear the words of the song, because if you can't how do you expect the word of God to be passed on? 4.Believe in your work that it is truly for God's glory.
If your group fits those requirements then please send me your projects along with a Bio of your group and I will be proud and honored to introduce you to our listeners. Remember there is no set charge for this, if you want to send a donation then praise be to God, it helps keep us on the air but it is not required, the only request is you keep us in your prayers that we can promote as many groups as possible in the time we have left before Jesus takes us all home.
If you would like to send your projects along with your bio you can send it to: Brother Gene PO Box 144 Kelso MO. 63758
And please include your phone numbers to make contact with you, we have many churches that use us to find a group for their services or special events.
You have some good advice Nick, but please remember there are still some of us that really do carry God in our heart first in business, and rejoice in all the blessings He sends us.


Commented by On 02/25/2008
enjoy listening and talking about southern gospel music. have no musicial talent, but always the best listener !


Commented by On 02/25/2008
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