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One of the most important aspects of being a "fan" for me is the ability to give the artists encouragement. Having dealt with artists at all levels, both in Nashville and elsewhere, I've learned that no matter who you are and where you're at in your career, encouragement is necessary and beneficial to both artists and fans.

So, is there a secret to being an effective encourager?

Think of a marathon race. Over the course of the runner’s miles to go before the finish line, often you’ll see people standing along the sidelines offering cups of water, ringing bells, blowing whistles, shouting “good job! You can make it!” Most who have run in these races will certainly attest that those special touches often make the difference between dropping out and staying the course.

Likewise, the most effective fans are the ones who are in spirit carrying the water, blowing the whistles, offering words of encouragement for their art. To that end, I developed a few simple guidelines I try to follow in my support of artists. I think you’ll find that these pointers will make sense and serve you well.

1. Speak first on the work.
If you are trying to show appreciation for an artist, make your primary contact focus the work. Somebody might have a certain personal appeal or come across as someone you might want to get to know better. But being too personally forward at the get go could backfire on you.

2. Encourage—don’t elevate.
This is a tough one at times. I’m not really sure why, but some people tend to think of some of those artists we admire as larger than life. Just because people can sing, play an instrument, or communicate with impact and get a certain amount of attention doing so, it doesn’t make them superior beings. Artists are people too—they grocery shop, they have families, they have struggles, they have faults. Being placed on a pedestal is an added burden to carry along with the pressures of being in a high profile industry.

3. Only go as far through the door personally as you are allowed.
This is the most critical piece in my view. Taking your cues and being sensitive to artists’ needs in several situations sets you apart from those who come across wanting more that can be given.

Artists, here are a few words for you, too: Modesty and humility are wonderful qualities we all admire. But, be sure you don't shrug off a compliment from someone for its sake. Maybe you felt you had an off performance night, didn’t feel you were in the pocket, or had sound quality issues. If people come up to you and tell you they were blessed, that is exactly what it means to them. Even though you didn’t think you reached anyone, they felt you got through to them, despite whatever problems you may have had. Also, don’t cut down your talents publicly. If you say in an interview that you don’t have much confidence in your vocal abilities or your performance, it tells the fans who have been complimenting you they have not been successful in getting their message through. That can be very disappointing and will make them wonder, well, what’s the point of saying anything at all. Don't let the treasures of encouragement slip through your fingers.

The main goal to appreciating artists is twofold: to bring joy to them to let them know their message is being heard...and joy to you through what they do. When unrealistic personal desires or expectations get in the way, the purpose gets lost. The two/way street of artist/fan relationships runs smoother when everyone heads in the same direction.

Wendy Vickers
http://wendyv.com
http://embraceencouragement.com

Reader Comments

Great advice, Wendy! Very on the mark, too.

God is good all the time & all the time God is good. 

Elaine Harcourt

Couldn't agree more, Wendy.

Becky
Lord, keep Your arm around my shoulder and Your hand over my mouth!

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